In general I would say Harem Hotel, not because of the sex but the story-telling is very good. It's more like reading a novel. But there are some games in the members+ that had potential as they were easier accessible, so I try to get there to see the progress...
I agree, there are some kinks I realy don't like (like scat), many that doesn't bother me (like incest or feet) and some I really like (like bondage and gags). For porn and games I would say: If you don't like it, don't watch/play it. For real life I say, everything is OK as long as everyone...