I've been kinda busy myself too. Finding weekend or not scheduled work for wifey, helping her with school, forcefully having to changing job against my will etc seem to take a bigger toll than i'd ever admit. Oh wait, i just did didn't i?
No, i see grindy games as badly written. Sure, i'm ok that you need to achieve certain things before you're allowed to do other things. But a well written game would take care of that by following the storyline. Grinding in-game weeks/months to progress a step is just boring.
Nah, unless someone go the extra miles to make the real porn specifically for the game. Just ripping pictures and collage them into a VN is just meh in my book.
Searched for a game name. Link popped up as one among many. Clicked through the list until i found one that also provided mod/WT with decent download places. Landed here and started exploring what else was here. Tada!
Last book i read was 1984. It's one of those i read once every decade. The older i get the more i understand reading it. I guess i obtain new experience in between and that change how i'm handling the message.