In games like skyrim i exclusively played as a female for all the cool clothing mods, for porn games my preference will be male but i dont mind playing female protag if its specifically designed for that
Prime example of a great artist with amateur game dev skills, with a little bit more intuitive design this could have been an all timer, moving around sucks, gameplay feels like ass, but its almost worth it just for the animation alone
Far too often these games are executed poorly, most of them just ends up being collection of meaningless gifs and images with no real meaning whatsoever.
The first impression ofcourse will be graphics, unique models helps , then the actual quality of the games keeps the players invested in it in the long run