I understand you. I'm the same. You come to jerk off on a porn site, but instead you have to chat. It's a good thing they don't make me shit in the kitchen :-)
The only thing I agree with is not realistically huge horse dick. I have no problems with the rest. It's a game. If it were as boring as reality, I wouldn't play it.
It's not just milking that's real. Sometimes developers even change the age of the characters. There are games where the main character's daughter looks 9 years old at the beginning, and after a week of playing time, she already looks 18. And the developers brazenly claim that she was that from...
I agree. When I see photos of some porn actors, it immediately hits the realism of the game. On the other hand, when a character has been specially immersed in a 3D environment and exposed specifically for this dialogue, everything immediately falls into place.
Yes, I like it. No man is able to draw so well, so realistically and so fast. Only artists who lose their jobs because of AI complain about this. Modern Luddites.
It's like going to a prostitute, but a virtual one. AI knows he's not a girl. He knows that his job is to pretend. So no, I haven't tried and I'm not going to. That's when they start making sex robots out of meat, that's when we'll talk.