Desert Stalker (Has a few swinging scenes)
Timestamps (Has a few swinging scenes)
Midlife Crisis (One or two scenes)
Deliverance (Large amount)
Long story Short (one i can think of off the top of my head)
I like Renpy games the most because they have nice qol features and are easy to take apart. I feel like a lot of Unity games unsuccessfully try to emulate Renpy. HTML and RPGM games are usually just painful to play.
If it's a developer who has completed several games before, I'm willing to start with the first version. However, if it's a new developer, I'll usually wait for 3-4 updates.