honestly depends.
I really liked the "comedically large dong" comment in Treasure of Nadia, but I didnt think of that characters dick as too big... Ive seen others that were like.... go-go gadget DICK huge that took me out of the scenes tho.
I struggle with the NTR thing because Im not a fan of cheating but I have been in several open relationships (poly) and we enjoyed sharing with each other. It bothers me that there is so much cuckold or NTR and not enough 3somes/orgies with other couples and all that.
more Ethical sexiness!