Coherence messed with me for a long time after watching it, so few movies have made me reflect so deeply. I can't believe I didn't mention Resolution, it was SO good! Have you seen Mr Jones? Based on your tastes it sounds like something up your alley...
My favorite anime is actually only the first season (and maybe second season) of Sword Art Online. I actually have found myself wishing to live in a world like SAO...
I can't say I have a top 5 as my list is constantly changing, but I will say that some of the best ones I have seen in the last 5-10 years are Hereditary, It Follows, The Witch, Coherence (though not technically horror, but slightly horrifying nonetheless), and Midsommar.
There are those that have MORE than enough. The problem becomes when they hoard it and leave us to fight over the crumbs. I am reminded of a quote I wish more people lived by: “The only time you look in your neighbor's bowl is to make sure that they have enough. You don't look in your neighbor's...
Summer's Gone is literally the one that somehow managed to illicit an emotional response from my dead soul. I have no idea why and it has me worried.
Westy gave me my all time favorite though, with The Guardian being a strong runner-up.